About me: I'm 53, easy going, bubbly, and a positive per, just 5 feet, with a bit of extra padding. I enjoy working out and stay away from junk food, for the most part. I enjoy being in nature and making things grow, like magic, from a little seed. I'll try and grow anything on the windowsill! I work with special needs - and they pay me for this wonderful adventure - too good to be true! I love to laugh and make others laugh. We both like to take the mickey out of friends and each other. About my lovely man: He's 39, quite intelligent, of average build, 6.3 tall, well read and can hold a conversation on pretty much any subject. He has a degree in geography and is now undertaking his Master Thesis. We were friends first and lovers came quite naturally after. He's really into nature, (Care of the Earth, Care of People and Return of surplus to Earth and people) and spends a fair bit of time out in nature. He's quick to laugh, loves good conversation and good food or watching a movie snuggled up on the sofa. While we enjoy a vanilla sexual side, we also like to play on the D/s side as well. We're really quite flexible but above all, want everyone to have a good time, however people are comfortable. He lives abroad and visits me in the UK. If you are open, quick to smile or laugh and can laugh at yourself, not taking yourself too seriously and enjoy the occassional play date, get in touch. If we all get on, further play dates would be lovely. I contracted HSV 30 years ago, from my first lover. He had a cold sore on his lip during oral intercourse. I'm pretty aware of my body and when to avoid contact, therefore have never passed on this unexpected "gift" to any partner. Honestly, for those new to HSV - so not the end of the world. "The Talk" is so difficult at first, but you tend to be more casual about it the more you have it and to be honest, it's such a small thing that really should not get in the way of your happiness with other humans.

My Ideal Person We both quite like a little extra padding - something to hold onto. Not really into tatoos or piercings. Not against personal choice; it's just not ours.

If you are open, transparent, like good conversation, quick to smile or laugh and can laugh at yourself; not taking yourself too seriously and enjoy the occassional play date, get in touch. If we all get on, further play dates would be lovely.